I never held it against Donald Trump that my son died of a fentanyl overdose in January 2021.
Yes, he had been President for four years at that point, and he hadnāt really done anything to stop the wave of drugs coming across our southern border. I just figured it was bad luck for Tim ā street drugs laced with fentanyl that happened to be in California but could have been anywhere.
But when Kamala Harris recast the border crisis last week as a crisis of human, weapons, and drug trafficking, it made me think. Why hadnāt Trump done more when he had the chance? And why does he keep attacking immigrants as people instead of addressing the real problems that sometime accompany open borders?
Maybe ā if he werenāt so darn weird, angry, and bigoted all the time ā this guy could have done something when he was President to secure the border better and reduce the flow of fentanyl into our country.
Or even this year, if he werenāt so self-centered he might not have killed the bipartisan border bill that aimed to address many of these problems. But I donāt think he cares one bit about people like my son.
Instead, he wallows in weirdness. His memorable border promise back at the start of his presidency was a ābeautiful wall,ā paid for by Mexico. In hindsight, everyone can see that made no sense.
Iāve been to the Texas/Mexico border in the city of Laredo, and even if there werenāt three bridges between them, you could wade across the shallow Rio Grande as it runs between Laredo (a city of 250,000) and its Mexican counterpart, Nuevo Laredo (a city of 350,000). They comprise the same metropolitan area. How was he going to wall the river there?
Also, unstaffed walls in more remote areas only invite tunnels. As Harris pointed out in her speech, these tunnels are often very well built, complete with air-conditioning.
Meanwhile, Trump still says essentially nothing about the 75,000 fentanyl deaths each year and what he could have done about them when he had the chance. Instead, he spends his time crowing about imagined pet-eating legal Haitian immigrants in a city (Springfield OH) 1,500 miles from the Mexican border. And how he wants to deport them back to Haiti ā as if legal Haitian immigrants ā who are 850 miles from Florida ā all use the roundabout route through Mexico (2,000 miles across a lot of ocean water) to come to the United States.
That feels more than weird.
Trumpās attacks on Haitian immigrants in Springfield OH remind me of the stories my father used to tell me about the way Italian and Sicilian immigrants in Middletown CT were treated a century ago. Although they were praised for their work ethic, their willingness to take factory jobs that others didnāt want, and their Mediterranean culture, they were also called greasy guineas, wops, and dagos ā and even on occasion the ānā word ā by people just like Trump.
I wasnāt even considered white when I started elementary school in the 1950s. āItalianā was its own special category, just like Hispanic or Latino/a is today.
I donāt want to go back there. But it feels like Trump is elevating the definition of insanity ā doing the same thing over and over again in the face of facts to the contrary ā to a new political level.
If he just kept quiet, his own mental deficits wouldnāt be quite so apparent. But instead, this past weekend he invited new questions about his mental wellness by attacking President Bidenās and Vice-President Harrisās. What purpose does it serve ā when he is clearly so intellectually outgunned by Harris ā to call more attention to that?
I donāt get it. Does he want us to think heās insane?
Whether or not you ever liked Donald Trumpās economy or his anti-government ādrain the swampā rhetoric, he was responsible for a lot of premature death during his presidency. He lost hundreds of thousands of lives to COVID, and many more to fentanyl.
Sorry, Donald, but my sonās life was one of them. He and others like him were worth more than your neglect and disdain. And Iāve come to believe that he might still be here if only youād had a level head about you and done your job right the first time around.
On a sultry June morning in our nationalās capital last Friday, I visited the Vietnam Veterans Memorial . Scores of people moved silently along the Wall, viewing the names of the men and women who died in that war. Some stopped and took pictures. One group of men about my age surrounded one name for a photo. Two young women posed in front of another, perhaps a grandfather or great uncle they never got to meet. It is always an incredibly moving experience to visit the Wall. It treats each of the people it memorializes with respect. There is no rank among those honored. Officer or enlisted, rich or poor, each is given equal space and weight. It is a form of acknowledgement and respect for which many veterans still fight. Brave Vietnam veterans returned from Southeast Asia to educate our nation about the effects of war and violence. I didnāt know anything about Post Traumatic Stress Disorder when I entered the Connecticut Legislature in the...
Comments
Post a Comment