The shock of sudden violence is so severe it takes your
breath away.
When it happens in a time and place where it is unexpected,
it does more than just remind us that no one is immune to it. It also reminds us how pervasive it is, how
much it affects us all, and how important it is that we do something about it.
In the summer of
1989, I imagined that sudden, random violence was something far removed from my
hometown. But I was about to learn
differently.
An article in The Atlantic
has just detailed the event, dredging up some quarter century old memories of a
day that changed my community’s life.
I was running for Mayor of Middletown, Connecticut, at the
time, and had reserved a booth at the city’s annual Sidewalk Sale in late
July. I was handing out yardsticks,
asking for a vote “for government that measures up to your expectations.”
Suddenly, there was a commotion about a block north of where
I was standing. I noticed people running
in two directions, both toward and away from the Woolworth’s store in the
center of downtown.
A young girl, randomly chosen, had been grabbed outside the
store and then repeatedly stabbed by a 38 year old man. She died on the spot. Hundreds of people witnessed the event.
Over the next weeks
and months, Middletown was in shock, just as other communities – Newtown,
Aurora, Tucson, Blacksburg VA, Littleton CO, and others – have been shocked
since.
The trauma in Middletown almost killed our downtown. Its suddenness and randomness made everyone
feel unsafe. It killed much of our sense
of community and personal safety.
The healing didn’t happen very quickly.
It took at least a decade or two of steady changes to the Main
Street area for that to happen. These changes
were so significant that – with the exception of a few businesses, nonprofits, and
restaurants that remain from that time – one would barely recognize the Middletown
of twenty-five years ago in its vibrant downtown today.
The trauma to which
Sandy Hook and other communities have been exposed is even greater.
To appreciate fully the scale of the Sandy Hook tragedy, we
must realize that because of it Newtown’s 27611 residents – who experienced
zero murders in 2011 – may well have experienced the highest homicide rate in
the nation in 2012.
The healing time will be long. And, at some level, my limited personal
experience in Middletown suggests that a community exposed to that level of
violence may never fully recover.
And this suggests
something even more frightening about the shock of violence in communities
across the nation.
There were 14,612
murders in the United States in 2011.
That’s 4.7 homicides for every 100,000 people.
In Middletown, Newtown, and Blacksburg, the homicide rate
was zero. In Aurora, it was 3. In Littleton, it was 5. Even in Tucson, which lived through the
shopping center massacre that year, it was under 10.
Murders are uncommon in these communities, contributing to
their newsworthiness.
But elsewhere, the everyday shock and trauma of violence is so
much more powerful. And because it is so
prevalent, media headlines cannot capture fully its true effect.
The murder rate per thousand in Miami in 2011 was 17, in
Philadelphia 21, in Jackson 30, in St. Louis 35, in Detroit 48, and New Orleans
58.
Here is another way to look at this. The Aurora massacre this past summer will
double Aurora’s homicide rate in 2012, by a factor of 3.6 per hundred thousand
residents.
The people of St.
Louis collectively live through the trauma of an Aurora-level massacre an
average of once every six weeks, the people of Detroit live through it every
month, and the people of New Orleans live through it every three weeks. No one gets used to this.
If this is hard to absorb, imagine what these war zones must
be like for the children and families living in them. Every year, 3.5% of adults
have diagnosable PTSD, and almost 8% will have it at some point in their
lives. Half will have
PTSD before they reach the age of 18.
What are we doing about the traumatic effect of all of this
violence in all of our neighborhoods – including those where it is commonplace? And, more importantly, what are we doing to
prevent such violence in the first place?
Email Paul Gionfriddo at gionfriddopaul@gmail.com. Follow Paul Gionfriddo on Twitter: @pgionfriddo.
thanks for sharing an insightful article, as we know,Most violent encounters are sudden, explosive and last only a few seconds; yet they are extremely intense and can leave you critically injured or even dead.
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